Today I learnt to cherish my life even more now. Not life as in I am able to live that kind of life. But life as in the people in my life, my surroundings, how it started, the life that I'm living.

I always thought those stupid epic cliche dramas whereby the guy cheats on the woman then they divorce and then the woman worries about the child because the child may grow up one day and ask about his birth father, or afraid that the child's friends would laugh at him or something were plain dumb. Not until I realised that such things do happen in real life today. 人生如戏，戏如人生。

Okay well i believe that "the guy cheats on the woman then they divorce" does happens, but I never ever thought that people laughing at the child would ever happen. It's like if you have both parents, and then you realised that your classmate/your friend doesnt, you would pity him/her right?! It's like a natural feeling that everyone will automatically have towards someone who doesnt have something that you do, isn't it?! I don't understand why on earth would anyone laugh at the person. Got no heart or what. Seriously?

And then when you realise that you actually have something that others do not, you will cherish what you have even more right? Because you now know that there are actually people who do not have something that you do, then you'll know that what you have is important, isn't it so? But why would someone laugh at the person instead of showing pity, expressing sympathy?

Next, I heard another story about BGR again. Okay, I don't even have enough time for sleeping, studying and having my own social life altogether, and i seriously don't understand why people even have the time to manage a relationship and manage sleeping, studying and social life as well. Seriously. Dear teenagers, it is not that I don't believe in relationships, I believe that every single person has the ability to love, because that is something that is born in us, in all animals; but knowing how to love isn't enough, managing your priorities and knowing who is the one worth loving is more important. At the age of 13? 14? 15? why do you need to get into a relationship? Just because you think it's fun? Just because you wanna give it a try and see how cool it is? And then so what happens after you get into a relationship? I don't get it. I really don't get this whole thing. Just admit it, you need and want accompaniment. Do you know that the most important thing in life is to learn and to master and to have the ability to be happy by yourself, for yourself, just with yourself, and being yourself.

Stop screwing up your own life, your studies, your future just because of the other person. Huh, you're gonna tell your parents i need to accompany him. What you're doing is so not cool at all, you're just breaking your parents hearts. What you're doing is what you think is "love", but you don't even know how to love yourself - which is to do well in your studies, in your life and build up your own future. Okay at least love your parents please. They have been there since the day you were born. You're just gonna say you need to show love for someone else and dump your parents? If you don't even know how to love yourself, if you can't even do well in your own aspects of life, how on earth do you even have the time, have the ability to care about others, to even express love for others? It's your own life that you're living, whatever you're doing will only affect you at the very end. Really. So stop screwing your own life.

Those who get into more than a few relationships in a year- you tell me that is a relationship? That is love? Teenagers do know how to express love, they do know how to love, because being able to love is born in us, it is as simple as just loving your toys from young and protecting them, and crying when your parents attempt to throw them away (okay my parents did that to me lol). They know. The only thing they do not know yet is who is worth loving. So before you know that, please, just love yourself. Give yourself the best, pity yourself, care about yourself, give time for yourself, accompany yourself, do all the things you love, try all the things you want. Instead of screwing yourself up.

It's just like...



不确定就别亲吻；感情很容易毁了一个人；一个人若不够狠爱淡了不离不弃多残忍。

Sorry random post. :P Hope this post will set some thinking going! 只想和你说，你还是要幸福，请不要在招惹别人哭。

Labels: life, Random

Today I learnt to cherish my life even more now. Not life as in I am able to live that kind of life. But life as in the people in my life, my surroundings, how it started, the life that I'm living.

I always thought those stupid epic cliche dramas whereby the guy cheats on the woman then they divorce and then the woman worries about the child because the child may grow up one day and ask about his birth father, or afraid that the child's friends would laugh at him or something were plain dumb. Not until I realised that such things do happen in real life today. 人生如戏，戏如人生。

Okay well i believe that "the guy cheats on the woman then they divorce" does happens, but I never ever thought that people laughing at the child would ever happen. It's like if you have both parents, and then you realised that your classmate/your friend doesnt, you would pity him/her right?! It's like a natural feeling that everyone will automatically have towards someone who doesnt have something that you do, isn't it?! I don't understand why on earth would anyone laugh at the person. Got no heart or what. Seriously?

And then when you realise that you actually have something that others do not, you will cherish what you have even more right? Because you now know that there are actually people who do not have something that you do, then you'll know that what you have is important, isn't it so? But why would someone laugh at the person instead of showing pity, expressing sympathy?

Next, I heard another story about BGR again. Okay, I don't even have enough time for sleeping, studying and having my own social life altogether, and i seriously don't understand why people even have the time to manage a relationship and manage sleeping, studying and social life as well. Seriously. Dear teenagers, it is not that I don't believe in relationships, I believe that every single person has the ability to love, because that is something that is born in us, in all animals; but knowing how to love isn't enough, managing your priorities and knowing who is the one worth loving is more important. At the age of 13? 14? 15? why do you need to get into a relationship? Just because you think it's fun? Just because you wanna give it a try and see how cool it is? And then so what happens after you get into a relationship? I don't get it. I really don't get this whole thing. Just admit it, you need and want accompaniment. Do you know that the most important thing in life is to learn and to master and to have the ability to be happy by yourself, for yourself, just with yourself, and being yourself.

Stop screwing up your own life, your studies, your future just because of the other person. Huh, you're gonna tell your parents i need to accompany him. What you're doing is so not cool at all, you're just breaking your parents hearts. What you're doing is what you think is "love", but you don't even know how to love yourself - which is to do well in your studies, in your life and build up your own future. Okay at least love your parents please. They have been there since the day you were born. You're just gonna say you need to show love for someone else and dump your parents? If you don't even know how to love yourself, if you can't even do well in your own aspects of life, how on earth do you even have the time, have the ability to care about others, to even express love for others? It's your own life that you're living, whatever you're doing will only affect you at the very end. Really. So stop screwing your own life.

Those who get into more than a few relationships in a year- you tell me that is a relationship? That is love? Teenagers do know how to express love, they do know how to love, because being able to love is born in us, it is as simple as just loving your toys from young and protecting them, and crying when your parents attempt to throw them away (okay my parents did that to me lol). They know. The only thing they do not know yet is who is worth loving. So before you know that, please, just love yourself. Give yourself the best, pity yourself, care about yourself, give time for yourself, accompany yourself, do all the things you love, try all the things you want. Instead of screwing yourself up.

It's just like...



不确定就别亲吻；感情很容易毁了一个人；一个人若不够狠爱淡了不离不弃多残忍。

Sorry random post. :P Hope this post will set some thinking going! 只想和你说，你还是要幸福，请不要在招惹别人哭。

Labels: life, Random