imperfections are perfect
Sunday, January 8, 2012 | 0 comments
Many people have been sharing this on Facebook and I thought that I shall just do a post about this topic today. About girls feeling that they are ugly.
I always hear people telling me that they think they're fat and that they want to go on a diet, they want to skip lunch/skip i dont know what meals, they want to stop eating for i-dont-know how many hours, etc. Skipping meals is so bad; my body can't stand it and whenever I do that I'll vomit each time I eat. The feeling is so horrible, the moment I see food, the moment I smell food, I feel like vomiting. It's like food is supposed to be a luxury, it's for enjoyment and yet for some period of time it was something i hate a lot. I have no idea why people want to skip meals, I have no idea why people are so desperate to be skinnier, the wrong way.
Nobody should skip their meals, they should eat healthily, have a balanced diet and exercise more, have an active lifestyle to live healthily and NOT trying to lose weight at a crazy rate.
They say they want to be as thin as me but at the same time they keep telling me to eat more and that being thin is not good. They're so ironic, they say that being thin isn't good and yet they wanna be thin. Well yes, I'm thin, but that's not what I want! It's just no matter how much I eat, it just doesn't help, besides, I just don't have a huge appetite!
Some people even tell me things like "I didnt put on makeup today so please do not freak out when you see me." It's like, what the hell? Even if you don't put on makeup, I wouldn't freak out! If your friends are truly your friends, they wouldn't despise you just because of how you look like. Whether you put makeup or not, they'll still treat you the same way as it is. Honestly, looks aren't the most important things unless you wanna be an artiste, or a model. I mean, yeah it isn't the most important things but you still have to look presentable, and by saying 'presentable' it doesn't mean that you have to look perfect.
And then let's move on, what's perfect? There's nothing perfect in this world, unless you're going to go for thousands of plastic surgery just to reach the level of perfectness. If there is a level of perfectness and everyone is going to follow that, then wouldn't everyone look the same? It is the imperfections that make things perfect. Because if everyone were perfect, then the world wouldn't be perfect! Cos everyone would look the same, and it would be so wrong. There is a reason why there is no level of perfectness and why we are all imperfect, that's because everyone of us is unique. You may say this is bullshit, but it's true, even in studying on Sciences, through the example that all of us have different fingerprints.
当每个人都一样的时候,那这世界又有什么意义呢?-炎亚纶
So stop telling yourself "I'm ugly, people will think I look like shit." PLEASE. If all of the above doesn't help...Humans are born selfish. We live our own life; we only care about ourselves. It is the love in us that makes us care about others. However we would always think about ourselves first. Everyone would be thinking if they look presentable. Nobody would really care or give a damn how you look like. Because they are, like you, thinking how they look like. Cos really, your looks doesn't matter. You're just born the way you should be. Unique, and different. There's nothing wrong.
I'm beautiful in my way
Cos god makes no mistakes
I'm on the right track, baby
I was born this way
Don't hide yourself in regret
Just love yourself and you're set
I'm on the right track, baby
I was born this way, born this way
-Born This Way, Lady Gaga.
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